How It Works
Earn coins by contributing to the community, spend them on premium resources, and understand how reactions and guidelines keep our forums safe and supportive.
Earning Coins
Coins recognize participation that moves the community forward. You can earn coins when you:
- Start worthwhile conversations: Post sincere questions, frameworks, or stories that invite discussion and support.
- Share thoughtful replies: Provide context, resources, or encouragement that others find valuable.
- Receive reactions: Each reaction type adds coins to your balance (see the reaction breakdown below).
- Stay consistent: Regular activity unlocks seasonal boosts and invites to private workshops (when available).
Using Your Coins
Redeem coins for registered members and Premium members resources and experiences:
Registered members
- Digital downloads: Spend coins on eBooks and future digital items released in the Store.
- Future catalog drops: New coin-priced digital perks will be clearly labeled so you always know where your balance can take you next.
Premium members
- Automatic digital access: Every eBook and digital item offered to registered members is unlocked for Premium members by default.
- Subscription savings: Apply up to a $3 equivalent in earned coins toward each monthly subscription renewal whenever your balance allows.
- Merchandise discounts: Use a $3 coin equivalent as a discount on merchandise, including the signature T-shirt available in the Store.
- Future features: Upcoming workshops, cohort experiences, or other premium services will automatically be included for active Premium members as soon as they launch.
Forum Reactions Explained
Reactions help members signal what was most meaningful in a discussion. Choose the option that best matches how the post or comment helped you.
I Relate
Show empathy when someone shares an experience that resonates with you. Grants the author +1 coin.
Thank You
Use when a post offered insight or support you appreciated. Grants the author +1 coin.
Helpful
Highlight actionable advice, tactics, or resources. Grants the author +3 coins.
Hug
Offer comfort during difficult moments. Grants the author +2 coins.
Fairness reminder: You can react to comments beneath your own topic, but you cannot react to the topic itself. This keeps the coin system balanced for everyone.
Forum Violations & Escalation
Posts that violate our community standards may be removed, and repeated or severe violations can lead to account suspension or coin forfeiture.
- Harassment, hate speech, or personal attacks
- Sharing private conversations or identifiable personal data without consent
- Repeated low-effort posts, spam, or irrelevant self-promotion
- Unverified medical, legal, or financial claims presented as fact
- Content that encourages self-harm, violence, or illegal activity
For a full breakdown, visit our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. Moderators review reports daily, and you can flag content directly from any post or comment.
Questions?
If something feels unclear or you believe a moderation decision was made in error, email us at support@whyfailedrelationship.com.